Well we are nearly 12 weeks( a few days to go) so the most high risk part of the pregnancy is over and according to books and websites so should some of Rebecca feeling sick well atleast until the last trimester again.

Rebecca and I have a different opinion on weather we should find out the sex of the baby I for one want to know what the sex is just so we can better plan for peanuts entry onto the world stage. Rebecca does not want to know( So she will probably get her WAY!) she said, so I said that I will know but not tell you. Rebecca thinks there is no way I can keep a secret that big without telling anyone especially my mom or sister. So the compromise is that if we do find out the sex of it and I am working very hard on convincing her of that we are not telling anyone about it .

Going to pick out some paint colors for the child's bedroom today so I can get started on it in a few weeks time when Griff comes down for the weekend, he is painter in Melbourne and one of my good mates, I said you bring the paintbrush and I will bring the slab of beer. I am also going to pick out a new color for the outside and get that done some time soon I may have to get my dad to help with that one I think. At the moment the bedroom looks like a war zone I will need to pull the double bed down and move the tallboy out of there and into our room, then need to strip the old wallpaper that's on it. Space is at a maximum in this house now let alone when the child arrives. I am buying a futon bunk to put in the other space room with the computer so I will still have a spare bed for quests.